There is a right way and a wrong way to route a Buddhist circuit of these three sites, and the difference is a wasted day in the car. This circuit is built the right way - you enter at one end and leave from the other, and you never retrace a single kilometre.
You arrive in Varanasi, by air at VNS or by rail at Varanasi Junction, and the circuit then moves steadily in one direction: south-east to Bodhgaya, then north to Kushinagar, and out from Gorakhpur. The two driving days are the real ones - Varanasi to Bodhgaya is about 250 km, roughly 5.5 hours, and Bodhgaya to Kushinagar is about 340 km, 7.5 to 8 hours, the long leg of the trip. Within each place the distances are small.
The clever part is the ending. Kushinagar is a small town with limited connections of its own, and the instinct of many planners is to loop all the way back to Varanasi or Gaya to fly home - a punishing drive of six or seven hours tacked onto the end of the trip. There is no need. Gorakhpur, with its airport and its major railway station on the main line, sits just 50 km from Kushinagar, about ninety minutes away. By finishing at Kushinagar and leaving from Gorakhpur, you turn what could be a long final slog into a short, easy transfer.
One honest footnote for the planners among you: Kushinagar now has an international airport of its own, opened a few years ago to serve Buddhist pilgrims directly. Flights to it are still limited, however, so for most travellers Gorakhpur - larger, better connected by both air and rail, and only a little further - remains the simpler way home. If a Kushinagar flight happens to suit your route, we will of course use it; otherwise Gorakhpur is the dependable choice, and we tell you plainly which makes sense for your dates.
That one decision - exit at Gorakhpur, not back the way you came - is what keeps this a six-day circuit rather than a seven-day one, and what lets the last day be a gentle stroll among the monasteries rather than a dawn start in the car. Experience My India plans it this way as a matter of course, starts the two long legs early, and breaks them with proper halts. The result is a circuit that feels contemplative rather than rushed. WhatsApp +91-7302265809 to shape the pace to your group.